Real Life

RealLife


This is pretty typical for a Thursday evening around here. It goes like this:
Jeremy comes home from work. We flop down on the bed and recap our day. The cats gather around to listen in on our conversation while acting impossibly bored and aloof. Jeremy finds the belt to my robe. He ties it around his head and starts acting like a karate master. Then with just another loop and a knot he transforms himself into a bunny. A cute bunny - not a creepy bunny. One more loop and knot later Jeremy turns the belt into a lasso. Nobody is safe from the lasso. Boots runs off like a scaredy cat and I turn to a game of Chicktionary on the iPhone.

We're both exhausted after a day of running, so together we decide to skip our evening workout, order tacos and watch The Royal Wedding coverage.

I couldn't help but laugh while watching an interview that went like this:
Interviewer: So, you designed the Queen's dress.
Designer: I did.
Interviewer: What can you tell us about it?
Designer: Absolutely nothing.
Interviewer: Twiggy - you're English. What do you think about this!?
Twiggy: The queen is super classy. She's going to look lovely.


And you guys, it went on like that for hours! But I was totally sucked in. All of a sudden I became especially interested in exactly what time Kate's dress was delivered where. I became intrigued by the loveless marriage of Charles and Diana and how the William and Kate's love story is a sweet contrast. So today I will spend the afternoon working on the couch while watching the wedding of the century and keeping my feet warm under Mister Scooty Boots.

 

A Wish List

My birthday is a week from today. I've insisted to my friends that I don't want a party or a big to-do. But when Jeremy asked me what I wanted I said "You know." I think he thought I was making some sort of sexy innuendo but I wasn't.

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So just to make it very clear, I want these boots. I haven't been able to get them out of my head for what seems like years and I think they would make a nice addition to my collection. I also want those freaky five-finger shoes.

But more than things for my feet I want a suitcase full of bikinis, a stamp on my passport and a beach.

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I want to learn how to surf and paddleboard. I want to kayak. I want Jeremy and the sand and the ocean all to myself for a week - even a long weekend would do.

Oh and while we're wishing I'll take the 6-pack abs too.

Second set of images from Athleta.

 

Seen and Heard

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A few things that have rocked my world in the past couple of weeks:

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My brother and sister got me and Jeremy tickets to see David Sedaris for Christmas. His reading wasn't until April so when it was time to see him live it felt like Christmas all over again.

When Jeremy and I were honeymooning in Taos, NM he came down with appendicitis. I drove his sad, pale and sweaty, writhing-in-pain, slipping in-and-out of consciousness self straight to the ER just blocks from our house - it was a long 9 hours and I found company in Ira Glass, and his contributors (including David Sedaris), of This American Life. Hearing his voice in real life was surreal and brought me back to that long drive home. But more importantly it reminded me that our lives are really nothing more than a book of short stories - here's to making it entertaining.

PLAY DEAD
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My brother got us tickets to Play Dead - a frightening Off-Broadway show directed by Teller (of Penn & Teller) and featuring Todd Robbins. Todd Robbins is a sideshow fixture who Donny has had the pleasure of working with a few times - Donny looks up to him a great deal and was flattered when Todd called out his name during the show. Apparently, some of Donny's fans were in the audience and were even more excited that THE Donny Vomit was there too.

Play Dead was unlike any other theater experience I've had before. It was beyond entertaining and inspiring. If you're in NYC any time soon definitely check it out.

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Jeremy and I, along with my sister, saw Bill Cunningham New York at the Oklahoma City Museum of Art (I always feel so classy and cultured when I see movies there). And you guys, this documentary was amazing. It was especially interesting to see after following street style blogs like The Sartorialist and Garance Dore for years. Bill Cunningham was a pioneer when it comes to documenting street style and you couldn't write a better character. Go see this immediately.

After the movie we went down the hall to the George Nelson exhibit. The furniture, clocks and print design all made my heart go pitter-patter in a major way.

 

The Easter Bunny Gives Me the Creeps

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Jeremy and I were headed down to spend the day with my family Saturday morning. It was a Saturday morning like any Saturday morning. We were pulling out of the neighborhood and about to turn right to get on the highway when I spotted something in the distance and screamed "No, go straight! Go straight!" Without question, Jeremy went through the green light instead of turning right. I didn't have time to explain myself but soon enough we could see this bunny I had spied from the distance. I couldn't tell if I was giddy or scared. We pulled up next to it and I snapped some pictures. We waved, smiled and said hi. The bunny replied with a gruff "Happy Easter" and he had the voice of a man who had just escaped from jail after serving what was supposed to be a life sentence for murdering children in the back of an ice cream truck.

 

Anatomy of an Outfit: Sweating it Out

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I confessed a while back that I haven't been the best at getting dressed all day. I told you guys that 50% of my day is spent in my pajamas. What I didn't tell you is that the other 50% is usually spent in my work out gear.

I shared with you all my workout routine when Jeremy and I were training to hike up to Everest Base Camp. The goal was to build up my legs as much as possible so that at high altitude when my lungs were failing me, my legs wouldn't - they would know what to do and take over. And they did. Since returning from Nepal my new goal is to build overall strength but specifically in my upper body.

My new routine typically looks something like this:
Monday: Spin / Cycle
Tuesday: AM - Run 3 miles (outside); PM - P90X (Chest and Back + Abs OR Chest, Shoulders and Triceps + Abs)
Wednesday: AM - Spin / Cycle + Abs; AND/OR PM - P90X Plyometrics (jump training)
Thursday: AM - Run 3 miles (outside); PM - P90X (Shoulders and Arms OR Back and Biceps)
Friday: Spin / Cycle OR day off
Saturday: P90X Yoga OR Rock Climbing
Sunday: P90X (Legs and Back + Abs)


So... it's extreme. And we're always sore. We only have 4 more weeks of P90X left but I think we're going to extend it for an extra 4 weeks due to an injury that Jeremy needed to take a couple weeks off for to heal. Which means I'll be spending even more time in my workout gear.

When it comes to work out clothes, beyond proper shoes, I don't need anything expensive or fancy. I have 2 pairs of moisture wicking pants, 5 sports bras, 1 moisture wicking tank and 3 regular tanks - I rotate all of these throughout the week. I like to keep my hair out of my face using Scünci bands. My current shoes are Brooks but I used to have some New Balance running shoes that I liked quite a bit - I used to balk at how much running shoes can cost but they're worth every penny. They keep my knees, feet and back healthy.

 

Meeting Bloody Mary | New York Part 4

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Do you all remember Sana? I designed her brand identity and blog for Pip & Estella earlier this year. It was a priority to grab brunch together while I was in Brooklyn and brunch we did. We enthusiastically talked about our careers, our vision and (with a little more caution) babies. I also had my first Bloody Mary ever. I'm usually a mimosa kind of gal but I was craving the acid and salt - I figured a Bloody Mary could deliver. After my first sip I knew what I had been missing out on. A couple hours and two rounds of Bloody Marys later we wrapped up our conversation when our boys started to look as if they needed a nap - but I left our brunch feeling energized and wanting more of what Sana has to say.

I should also note here that the day before Anna (Door Sixteen) and I met up for lunch and coffee but as we got caught up in talking about design, home repair, puppies and the fantasy vegan bakery we're going to open we forgot to snap a picture together. I love how the blog and Twitter have made the world smaller - or if not smaller at least more accessible. I love that I now have people I consider friends living all over the world.

So back to our day - Donny, Jeremy and I continued on to the Brooklyn Flea (I was determined to find some Whimsy & Spice cookies) but it was cold and starting to drizzle - vendors were packing up. We then headed straight to another pub for a second brunch and another Bloody Mary. The rain was coming down hard and we were unsure what to do with ourselves as the evening was closing in. So, we decided to grab bagels, a bottle of wine and a couple of 750 piece puzzles to keep us entertained for the evening. It might have been the best evening ever - but more on that later.

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The next morning, also our last day in Brooklyn, we woke up and guess what I was craving - another Bloody Mary! So we headed down to another pub and enjoyed our 3rd brunch within a 24 hour window. It was here that I asked Donny what he's going to do. He asked me what I was going to do. We talked about possibilities of what's next and we bonded over the insecurity that comes with making our art our career. And maybe it was the Bloody Marys talking but Donny and I left brunch that morning feeling confident and optimistic. Then, just as quickly as we said hello, Jeremy and I said goodbye.

P.S. You can read Sana's account of our time together here.

 

A Case of the Hiccups | New York Part 3

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After a strange man in an Affliction T-shirt, with photos of a gun that he referred to as his baby, offered to beat up another strange, yet friendly, man on behalf of Jeremy, and 2 pints of Blockhead Lager later, I had a serious case of the hiccups.

These hiccups followed me out of the bar, through the Bronx and on to the subway platform. They were the kind of hiccups that shake your whole body. And when you're a little bit tipsy they're the kind of hiccups that make you feel like a cartoon character.

Everyone has their own method for curing hiccups. My go-to cure used to be taking 4 fingers and pressing them hard into the area right below the sternum. Right at the soft bit, under where your ribs meet in the middle of your chest. Take 4 deep breaths and your hiccups should be cured. But when that failed me I resorted to standing on my hands, with assistance from Jeremy, in order to get these hiccups out of my body.

And that turned into us performing our own circus tricks. We're going to take this show on the road!




Thanks to Donny for capturing these moments for us. His degree in video broadcast, my history in gymnastics and Jeremy's core strength made this video possible.

So, I want to know - what's your go-to cure for the hiccups? I seem to get them all the time!

 

Hello, Donny | NY Part 2

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My brother is Donny Vomit. He's a sideshow performer - which means he hammers nails into his head and swallows swords for a living. He lives in Brooklyn, NY and just got off tour with the Pretty Things Peepshow (a touring burlesque troupe).

After our flight and train ride into Brooklyn, Donny met us in the lobby of his place. We took an elevator up to the 13th floor (of course he lives on the 13th floor), we removed our shoes and dropped our bags and just seconds later Donny was showing us a new shiny piece of steel - a sword. There was a piece of blue painters tape about 3/4 of the way up and when I asked him what that was for he told me "That's where I know to stop." Then he proceeds to tilt his head back and drop the sword down his throat.

There's no trick to it - just a lot of practice. In highschool Donny used to shove his fingers down his throat every day to try and numb his gag reflex. He wasn't yet swallowing swords but had heard somewhere that it takes 7 years of tickling your throat every day to destroy the instinct to barf. Then in college he got more serious and contorted a wire hanger into a shape that resembled a sword - he started shoving that down his throat and from there moved on to swords.

Donny had a show in the Bronx scheduled the second night we were visiting to promote Coney Island Lager Beer. If you've ever been to a sports bar you might be familiar with promo girls. They're usually wearing cut up t-shirts with a liquor logo on them, two bras, layered, to achieve awesome cleavage. They walk around handing out shots of whatever they've been hired to promote. Donny is kind of like a promo girl but instead of an awesome rack he's got an awesome mustache. And instead of flirting to sell liquor, he hammers nails into his head and swallows swords.

So, Donny has his show and we were happy to tag along. We drank pints of Blockhead Lager and watched the faces of unsuspecting bar patrons as Donny did his thing. Afterwards, a Jersey Shore type of guy in an Affliction t-shirt insisted on telling Donny over and over again how crazy he is. After a few minutes of that he starts showing us photos of his baby on his iPhone - his "baby" was a gun. I decide to remove myself from the situation and grab another beer, meanwhile Jeremy and Donny are stuck talking to this guy. I chat with the Shmaltz Beer rep while the Jersey-Shore-Affliction-guy-with-photos-of-his-baby/gun-on-his-phone, we'll call him "Noel" (because that was his name) tells Jeremy he should keep an eye on me. After a few more minutes of telling Donny how crazy he is, Noel feels as if Donny and Jeremy are his bros. Noel is becoming increasingly agitated that I'm holding a conversation with a man who isn't my husband and tells Jeremy that he will kick the dude's ass on Jeremy's behalf. Jeremy was dumbfounded and politely told Noel that I am completely capable of holding a conversation with another guy. Now I know why those characters on MTV are always getting in so many fights.

 

Hello, Brooklyn | NY Part 1

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Jeremy and I went to New York last week. With just one direct flight and a train ride later we were at the place we'd call home for the next 5 days.

I think a combination of working for myself and trekking to Mt. Everest Base Camp have ruined my idea of vacation. I'm not sure how to leave work behind - it seems to follow me wherever I go. And I don't know how to relax if I'm not pushing myself up a hill, one foot at a time, at high altitudes.

I found a little bit of escape as we walked through really amazing neighborhoods in Brooklyn. The kinds of neighborhoods where you get fined $350 for honking. The kinds of neighborhoods where women with no makeup and messy buns look like models. I got lost as I soaked in every single detail of every single person who walked by me, trying to piece together the story of how they got there. I tried to get lost in my own fantasy of what my life would be like in a perfect little Brooklyn neighborhood: I would live in a teeny-tiny, but fabulous, studio apartment with Jeremy and our two cats. I would have exactly 10 articles of clothing but lots of accessories - mostly scarves for all seasons. We'd have big windows and a stoop that we would eat bagels and coffee on. We would do all of our grocery shopping at the little bodega on the corner. We would have my brother and his beautiful girlfriend over for wine and asparagus wrapped in filo dough. We would be amazing.

I was having a hard time indulging in this daydream and I couldn't pinpoint why. I'm usually REALLY good at visualizing my fantasy life. It wasn't until we came home that I realized I'm already living the dream. I have a man who does my taxes and makes me coffee every morning. I have two matching cats and big windows. I have lots of amazing accessories. I have my go-to places and waiters who know exactly what I'm going to order before I even pretend to look at a menu. I've got art and wine and locally grown asparagus.

I still want to see the world and meet new people with interesting stories but in the meantime, I'm happy with making the most of where I am right here, right now.

 

Quinoa with Roasted Veggies

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Quinoa (pronounced keen-wah) isn't just a grain. It's a conversation starter. A sometimes controversial one at that. Quinoa isn't any stranger to this blog but lately I've been enjoying watching other people discover this super grain. They either love it or love to hate it. It usually goes something like this:

Girl A: Yeah, I'm not really eating gluten these days.
Kathleen: Oh, are you into quinoa?
Girl A: Is that how you pronounce it!?

OR

Kathleen: Yeah, I'm trying the whole vegan thing these days...
Girl B: Oh! Are you into quinoa!? I love, love, love quinoa!
Kathleen: Yeah, totally! Yum!

OR

Boy A: Yeah, I'm working on my six pack. No beets. No carbs. Nothing.
Kathleen: What about quinoa!?
Boy A: Quinoa makes me barf.

OR

Kathleen: Did you like In Defense of Food?
Tara: No. It made me feel like a white bread eating asshole. I'm just not going to start cooking 'keeeeen-wah' for my family.
Kathleen: ...

Who knew such a small grain could elicit such a big reaction. The other evening we had some veggies to eat up before leaving for vacation the next morning. I simply roasted some asparagus and slice portabella mushroom (lightly coated with olive oil and seasoned with salt) in the oven at 400F for 20 minutes or so. I cooked up some quinoa, threw in the roasted veggies and topped it off with a little bit of soy sauce (shoyu) and rice vinegar.

More J&K quinoa recipes:
• Green Protein Bowl
Quinoa Scramble
Quinoa with Asparagus and Fried Egg
Quinoa Stuffed Peppers

Quinoa elsewhere:
• Going with the Grain by Jason Hudson
Quinoa is Indeed a Miracle by Lindsey at Wolf Shorty

 

Watching:

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Have I ever mentioned how much I love TV? I do. At the end of a long work day, after hitting the gym and throwing together dinner, there is nothing I love more than to veg out in front of the TV. Here's what we've been watching lately:
• Freakonomics - I highly recommend this one. It'll get you thinking...
• Hanna - Okay, we didn't watch this on TV but rather in the theater. This movie was highly styled and fun to watch but lacked some depth.
• Shameless - I'm hooked. And I love William H. Macy.
My So Called Life - A classic that we just started watching on Netflix. I loved watching this show the first time around (I was 12) and am enjoying seeing it from a more grown-up perspective now.
• United States of Tara - I could stare at Toni Colette all day long. Something about her hypnotizes me. And US of Tara is so so good.
• The Guitar - This movie wasn't great. It's the kind of movie where the lead actress acts like she's never interacted with a single person her whole life and you become exhausted watching her try to figure her shit out. We watched this because Jeremy recognized the band that plays the theme song to Shameless. They were once on tour with a band called The Every Others. The Every Others once stayed with Jeremy when they were on tour. When Jeremy asked The Every Others when they were going to have their own appearance on a TV show - that's when they told Jeremy that they were in this movie. Did you follow that? Yeah, me either.
• Nurse Jackie - This show comes on right before United States of Tara and it's continued to capture my interest every Monday night.
• Arrested Development - We just finished the last season. I tried watching this show years ago and just couldn't seem to get into the absurd humor of it - but after watching the entire series I feel like I can't get enough.

What are you all watching right now? Any recommendations?

 

Landlord | Matters

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You guys have been asking about the rental property and buying houses so I'm going to share what we've done and what we're doing as far as property matters are concerned. First, I should clarify that property in Oklahoma is just dirt cheap. Second, we're no real estate experts but we've learned that you don't have to be.

THE BEGINNING
This story starts when I was still in college. My parents bought a for my brother and me to live in through college. It made sense to buy an inexpensive property near campus rather than pay rent to someone else for 8 years. After I graduated college and bought my own house my parents decided to keep their property and rent it out to college students. They paid me $50/month to act as the property manager. So I made applications, listed the property in the paper, drew up leases (Google is amazing for this sort of thing), showed the house and handled any issues (ilke clogged plumbing) that would come up. My parents never even had to deal with it and I learned how to be a landlord.

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OUR FIRST RENTAL PROPERTY
Jeremy bought his first house a couple years before we got together. Of course, this is Jeremy we're talking about, so he made sure it was well within his budget. Then when we bought the home we live in now he decided that he could afford to keep his old home and rent it out instead of selling it when the market was down. It was a very spur-of-the-moment decision, and one we probably wouldn't have made without the experience of my parents' rental, but it turned out to be far easier and more lucrative than we thought possible.  This marked the beginning of our "rental empire", as we called it.  The plan was to get out of debt over the next year or two (not including mortgages - we hardly consider those debt, since we always owe less than the house is worth) and then start saving for another rental.  It's an interesting transition going from paying off debt to investing, where the goal is cash-in-hand.  For example, we could pay down the mortgages we have now (which would be fantastic), but that money will do a lot more for us if we use it to invest in another rental instead.  Each rental earns some amount of profit per month, so it makes sense that our income would snowball and it would take less and less time to save enough for the next rental.

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BUYING OUR SECOND RENTAL PROPERTY
The plan was put into action, and once we had enough cash saved up to put 20% down on a rental property (and still have a little leftover in savings) we started looking. I had a clear vision of the kind of place and tenants I wanted. I wanted an older home with character in an interesting location, preferably near a college campus. I wanted tenants that will not only pay rent but will also respect and love the place. We've made a choice to not be slum lords, and only buy property that we would be willing to live in ourselves (which, we recognize, could actually happen one day).  
We got approved for a modest loan, contacted a realtor and started our house hunt. We looked at a few places and as soon as I saw the house that we ended up buying I knew it was the one. We made an offer, it was accepted and three weeks later we closed. It was as quick and easy as it sounds.  It's amazing how much easier it is to decide on a house when you're not going to be the one living in it.
We listed the property on Craigslist on a Monday and by the next Wednesday had over a dozen calls on it. A week later we reviewed our applications and had a deposit on the place.  We knew it was a good property in a good location, but we couldn't believe how much interest we've had in it.  We even had a guy offer to pay an extra $100/month to give it to him instead of the girl we'd already gotten the deposit from (we didn't, by the way). 

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THE BAD
Everyone asks about the downsides to owning rental properties. Here they are:
• Paying for repairs to a home you don't even live in can be a bummer - but if you budget for it it's not so bad. A tenant with a backed up toilet is not a happy tenant, and we want to be good landlords, so repairs are of utmost importance.

• Yes: we've had some deadbeat tenants, and yes: we sued them. We're nice people so stuff like this isn't fun for us. We learned from our mistakes and now take steps to avoid this sort of situation from ever happening again.

• Unoccupied space - Paying two mortgages for a few months kind of sucks but it's expected.

• The legal stuff - This isn't so bad, it just takes some time to figure out. Google goes a long way when learning your rights as a landlord and what rights your tenants have. However, now that we're growing our property business we have a lawyer who advises us on property matters.  

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THE GOOD
Buying property is our way of putting money in the bank and investing in our future. But when you have investment property, somebody else is investing in YOUR future. It kind of blows my mind. Sometimes it feels too good to be true, maybe even a little greedy, but it's a legitimate business and a service that we all need at some point in life.

• Someone else is paying your mortgage!

• Our property manager - When Jeremy's mom retired from her 9-to-5 we decided to hire her as our property manager. She's kind, smart and uses her gut. She gets good people in our houses and frees up our time to do stuff like watch Arrested Development all weekend.

• I'm not a tax expert but owning property is good for your taxes. When we take a loss on our property with repairs and unpaid rent it ends up being okay when tax time comes around. Or something… 

• The profit - We rent our places out for enough to cover the mortgage, expected repairs and our property manager fees. Any extra little bit of profit goes towards saving for another property. 

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SOME OTHER CONSIDERATIONS
• We love our house and aren't particularly keen on relocating, but if we could live in these properties as we bought them we'd be entitled to some breaks - like a "homestead" exemption on property taxes, and lower interest rates.  Those things wouldn't change once we started renting the house out, and would mean more cash-in-hand every month. 

• Banks won't let you get away with any less than 20% down on an investment loan, which is actually fine because otherwise you'd be paying extra for PMI which is HIGHWAY ROBBERY AND THE DEVIL - evil, evil stuff.  Avoid at all costs. 

Of course there is more to be said on the subject, but this is the abbreviated overview of how we've made it work for us, so far.
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I'm going to continue to expand on this new "matters" series. I'm an open book, so let me know if there are any other topics or specifics you'd like me to dive into. Help me figure out what to talk about next! I've had requests for Household Matters (how Jeremy and I keep a clean house and divide chores), Marriage Matters (from the big issues to the daily grind of forever and ever) and Wardrobe Matters (how to get the most out of a few basics) - I can't wait to tackle these topics.

Other topics in the Matters Series:
• Money Matters
• TO-DO Matters

 

We Relay Well

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I'm not a runner. But somehow our friends convinced Jeremy and me to run in the Oklahoma City Memorial Marathon with them. So over drinks, food and laughs we started coming up with a team name - because of course we can't just run. There has to be some sort of theme. Somehow, one thing led to another and over a tipsy conversation about grammar and relays Jeremy came up with our team name: We Relay Well. We Lay Real Well.

Of course we're having t-shirts made.

 

Anatomy of an Outfit: Loosen Up

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You guys know that every morning when I get dressed I hold my self to a post-apocalyptic fashion standard. But now that the weather is turning from hot to cold I feel lost. I can't seem to adapt my end-of-the-world sense of style to warm weather.

I've been living in these feather earrings from the 1970s lately. My friend's mom gave them to me and at the same time passed down some groovy roach clip earrings from the same year - they had little burn marks on them and everything! So, maybe I'll focus on the bohemian look for the summer. I've always had an affinity for the 1970s - bell bottoms, braids, peace, love and happiness can totally do it for me - when I'm not preparing to kill zombies and defend myself against hungry cannibals, that is.

Shoes - Eastlands
Trousers - Urban Outfitters
Tank - F21
Cardigan & Belt - Target
Custom Halter Necklace - Clyde's Rebirth
Feather Earrings - Vintage
Headbands - Scünci

 

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The upside to my job feeling like a job is that my weekends are starting to feel more like the weekend. I'm able to leave all my worries about prints, estimates and my excitement for unfinished designs in the designated 100 sq. ft. corner of my home. My work will always be buzzing inside of me but I'm finding ways to compartmentalize so I can appropriately honor the 48 hours of celebration that is the weekend.

The weekend highs in a snapshot looked like this:
• Decompressing from the week with a bottle of wine with girlfriends
• Dreaming about the moon and falling in love with it
• Sleeping in followed by a slow date with coffee and oatmeal
• Hydrating with lots of coconut water
• Sharing the story of my career so far with self-conscious college students
• Finding myself beyond inspired by someone else's work
• Filling my cart with delicious goodies at my very favorite grocery store
• Watching Hanna and wishing I was a badass
• Eating raw food
• Drinking microbrews on patios
• Listening to some really amazing slam poetry at Urban Roots
• Sushi and cupcakes with family
• Sketching the beginnings of a local food project with friends

Let's hear it - what was the highlight of your weekend?

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Custom Wedding Invitations: Modern Topography

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I'm so excited to share these bilingual invitations I designed for Carmen and TJ with you guys. Like Beia and Layo, Carmen and TJ needed a bilingual, travel-inspired invitation too. However, she wanted something a bit more modern and bright.

Car­men works as an urban designer and her father is a geo­g­ra­pher – the love of maps runs in her fam­ily. So together we brainstormed and decided to use a topographical map for inspiration. I pulled lines from an actual map of the area where the wedding will be for these invites. I used a combination of modern typography and paired lime green with grey for a contemporary color palette.

I also wanted to share with you all a little bit about my process when pitching a design to a client. Now, wedding invites are a beast of their own because there is a lot of emotional attachment to the design. So, I want to make sure the invitations come across as real and "warm" in my pitch as they do in print. I used to just sent brides a PDF of the design and call it a day - but I realized it just wasn't translating on a monitor like it would in real life.

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So nowadays, I don't just send a PDF but I also send a photo of an invitation mock-up I've created with my ink-jet printer. I feel like this helps translate the design to what it will really look and feel like.

Obviously, the original design is not what we ended up with. It's rare that I have to redesign a project - usually my first design (and I always only provide one - after all, I'm pouring my heart into it) is it. But Carmen felt like it was a bit too literal and edgy - so I decided a more abstract approach would be best. I really listened to her thoughts and feedback and nailed it with the final design as printed.

 

Anatomy of an Outfit: Jeremy Style

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Apparently this is one of my poses Jeremy is mocking here.

Jeremy is quiet. Sometimes he's listening to what you have to say but other times he's off in his own world, daydreaming about kitties with laser eyes.

About the outfit:
When I asked Jeremy what he wanted for his birthday he said "Clothes from Shop Good." So, I went to Shop Good and bought every article of boy clothing they had in Jeremy's size. Jeremy proceeded to throw out half his closet to make room for his new wardrobe.

Pants - Toddland
Shirt - Alternative Apparel
Sunglasses - Ralph Lauren

Shoes - Ben Sherman

Cat - Dinahsaur

Tattoo - David Bruehl

Poster - W+K Studio (I'm still finding a place to hang it)

 

Public Speaking

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This week my adventures in freelancing has landed me two speaking gigs - one at an International Association of Business Communicators luncheon (sounds legitimate right!?) and another at a university. I used to be shy about public speaking but I figure if you guys care about what I have to say so will established professionals and students. Maybe...

At one I'm speaking about Design Trends and at another I'll be discussing Design Entrepreneurship. Above are a few slides from my presentation but I'll share more with you all on these topics and what I talked about next week.

The hardest thing about this whole public speaking thing (so far) has been putting together a bio for myself. I decided to just pull from descriptions of myself that my sister has written on her blog:
Kathleen Shannon is an art director turned free-spirited freelance designer and an on-her-way-to-being-sort-of-a-big-deal blogger. She's also a local-sustainable-square-foot-gardening foodie, with a lacy-layeredy-boyfriend-jean aesthetic and a style perspective that pervades everything from her clothes, to her home, to her food. She'll follow a whim from the foothills of Mount Everest to a reality show audition just to have a good story to tell.


Wish me luck!

 


J & K started this blog project to document the remodel of their 1929 historical home in the heart of Oklahoma City. It has now turned into a documentation of life, food, fashion, freelance, inspiration, design, adventures and details around the J & K house.

Kathleen works as an award-winning brand consultant and designer specializing in small business branding at Braid Creative & Consulting. Jeremy is a software engineer and is the left-brain to Kathleen’s right.

You can contact Kathleen at
jeremyandkathleen (at) gmail (dot) com.

All photos and graphics by Kathleen unless otherwise stated. Feel free to use them with permission or credit.

Anatomy of an Outfit



Sometimes I like to get dressed and take pictures of myself. For all of my outfit posts click here.

Freelance Matters



Freelance Matters: A series about how I tackle freelance issues such as estimating, billing, to-do lists and how to fire a client.

Trekking to Everest



In October 2010 Jeremy and I trekked through the Himalayas to Mt. Everest Base Camp. It completely changed my life. Read about the entire adventure, day-by-day, here.

My Business



Braid is a creative & consulting business I own with my sister. We do branding and business visioning for creative entrepreneurs. On the Braid blog I share branding adventures, how-to articles and advice on the creative process. If you need a little brand therapy of your own visit Braid or subscribe to the Braid blog RSS feed here.



What We Eat



We like to eat really good food - at least 3 times a day. Sometimes I blog about it - click here for recipes and yummy ideas.


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